It’s the right thing to do.

Resilience is in all of us. It’s just, for some, access is blocked by life circumstances and events that lead to choices that undermine resiliency’s ability to play a part in creating a life of grace and ease.

And living a life of grace and ease, at any age, is, at least to me, a wonderful way to live.

When I make choices that undermine my body, when I think thoughts that disrupt my peace of mind and break down my confidence and belief in myself, I am not only weakening my resiliency, I am hurting the person I need the most in this life — me.

I need me to be strong, healthy, confident and full of grace to move through this world, creating better in my wake.

And to do that, I must take care of all of me — my whole body – head, heart, belly, torso, limbs, eyes, ears, mouth, skin, skeleton, arteries…. All of me.

And not just all of me – but all of the world around me for we are all connected. We are all part of this one planet. This one giant ball of matter spinning around the sun, giving birth, dying, regenerating, renewing, evolving.

We are all connected to everything. Part of the same matter, lifeforce, world.

And in this world, me, the individual, is a microcosm of the whole earth. When I stress my resiliency, I am stressing the resiliency of all the world around me.

Taking care of me, no matter my age, takes care of all the world around me, decreasing the stress I place on the world.

And that’s why taking care of myself as I age, being conscious of the choices I make is so important.

When I don’t, I put more stress on my body, the people who love me, the people and systems that are there to care for me when I’m not well or capable of taking care of myself, the world all around.

Limiting stress is good for me – it’s good for everyone.

And that’s what I’ve realized this week as we’ve explored ‘Resiliency’. If I want it to be strong and capable of supporting me when I really need it, I need to take good care of me in the here and now.

namaste

3 thoughts on “It’s the right thing to do.

  1. Great piece, but I wonder if your take on stress is for everyone. I think lifestyle choices contribute to longevity and happiness (check out the Blue Zones) – but I’m finding post-pandemic stresses more productivity-inducing (positive stress) than was my stress/distress during three years of ‘downturn in the economy + pandemic stressors’ (negative stress). Perhaps like those coaches at a gym that push us to push our bodies and our muscles – into the pain zone, to get the gain zone.

    Keep writing these pieces – they are thought-provoking and valuable to your audience.

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  2. Interesting approach to positive vs. negative stress as described by Mark K.
    Need to mull this one over for there is definite merit in how it can benefit one’s personal journey of aging with grace. Thanks Mark.

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