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A blog by Louise Gallagher

There is no perfect way to Love. 



Beaumont: Every moment is the perfect moment to rest.

 One of Leonard Cohen’s most immortal chorus’ from his song Anthem is, 

“Ring the bells that still can ring
Forget your perfect offering
There is a crack in everything
That’s how the light gets in.”

So often, we search for the perfect moment, the perfect setting, perfect everything before taking action in our lives.

There is no perfect anything that will create peace or joy or contentment or love.

Peace, joy, contentment, love, all matters of the heart, are not found in our search for perfection, they are found right where we stand, right where we are at, as we are.

They are found in our acceptance, our allowing, our being who we are in the moment of noticing that this moment, right now, is filled with potent possibility. This moment right now is the one that counts because this is the moment we have to take action, make a difference, make a decision to choose love over war, peace over discord, joy over sadness.

We seek perfection yet, it lives right now, in every moment, full of the delicate grace that comes when we sink into the stillness within and stop our mind’s constant striving for the more perfect moment, person, job, situation, idea. The more prefect time to be happy, content, joyful, loving, peaceful…

When we shine our light on what is and see what is present in its many facets, we find ourselves filling up on the beauty, wonder and awe of everything.

When we breathe deeply into the cracks in our heart, the broken places and the worn down edges of our dreams, the light shines through, showing us, all is not lost. It is all still present in all its perfect imperfections, cracks and all.

There is no perfect moment to love, or dance, or laugh or spin about in joy. There is only now. Perfectly illuminated by the light shining through the cracks we couldn’t see when our eyes were closed in the darkness of beliving, now was not the right time to let go of the things that hurt, the things we cannot change.

As Cohen wrote, “there is a crack in everything. That’s how the light gets in.”

In every crack there is the possibility of light shining through, as long as we open our eyes and choose to let the light in through Love.

Author: Louise Gallagher

I believe in wonder. I believe we are all magnificent beings of divine beauty. I believe we can make a difference in this world, through every act, word, thought. I believe we create ripples with everything we do and say and want to inspire everyone to use their ripple to create a better world for everyone. I'm grateful you're here.

16 thoughts on “There is no perfect way to Love. 

  1. There is a crack in everything, that’s how the light gets in! I needed THAT this morning!

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  2. or just choose action, over inaction

    mostly we tend not to do stupid things, thoughtless things or harmful things – because our unconscious mind will regulate us, pull us back from obviously follies that don’t fit ‘who we are’ … so trusting action over inaction is something we all need to do more, do better

    any action at all is better than sitting on the sidelines watching the parade go by

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  3. Such a perfect thought for today, and everyday.

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  4. Thank you for this almost-perfect post, Louise, with just the right amount of cracks to let the light get in.

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  5. Be present not perfect 🙂


  6. Ahhhhhh! Breathe in…breathe out….sigh…relax. ♡

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  7. Well said Louise and I love Leonard Cohen! ❤
    Diana xo

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  8. So bloody great I also get that we need some cracks to let things in life seep in

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